Is the Palmetto Bay Council in Crisis? Grant Miller takes a wry look, using humor rather than heavy-handedness to review the unfortunate situation which occurred on Monday, May 21, 2012, or as Grant Miller states; “the day in Palmetto Bay Council history when Mayor Stanczyk called upon the police to remove a concerned resident from a council meeting.”
He asks the question that many who regular attend council meetings have been asking:
He asks the question that many who regular attend council meetings have been asking:
What has happened to civility and respect for opposing viewpoints in Palmetto Bay?
Is this current council so convinced that their opinions are the only valid opinions, that mocking opposing viewpoints is the norm?
Or is stress leading to an unraveling of those serving on the council?
Grant Miller pointed out that anyone who did watch the meeting on cable was probably confused. Was this a Council meeting, or a rebroadcast of the movie Braveheart? I can see where some contrary speakers may feel as if Brian Pariser as well as Shelley Stanczyk do treat them as Braveheart Character King Edward Longshanks did in the movie excerpt below; (just before throwing the character out a window): “Who is this person that speaks to me as though I needed his advice?” Only instead of a window, uniformed police were used to escort a dissent out of the meeting.
Did Mr. Harris need to be thrown out? Absolutely not. He spoke from his chair - in the front row and in response to comments made by Brian Pariser. I have personally heard Mrs. Stanczyk's own spouse call out from the back of the room, yet he has never been "escorted out." What is the difference other than the marital relationship? I believe that Shelley Stanczyk simply got flustered under the pressure.
I do agree with Grant Miller and also complement Councilman Patrick Fiore who did show some much needed leadership that night and disarmed a terrible situation that could have deteriorated even further. We could use less signs of force and mob mentality and more compassion. Strong leadership and respect for speakers would have also prevented the hostility. Mrs. Stanczyk was very indecisive in removing the speaker, beginning at 27:00 of the official meeting tape - "Madam Clerk, should we have him escorted? ... Please have him escorted out...Oh, alright never mind."
I do agree with Grant Miller and also complement Councilman Patrick Fiore who did show some much needed leadership that night and disarmed a terrible situation that could have deteriorated even further. We could use less signs of force and mob mentality and more compassion. Strong leadership and respect for speakers would have also prevented the hostility. Mrs. Stanczyk was very indecisive in removing the speaker, beginning at 27:00 of the official meeting tape - "Madam Clerk, should we have him escorted? ... Please have him escorted out...Oh, alright never mind."
It is not healthy to get angry anymore, but it is time to stop the foolishness and begin to work together. There is more than one opinion in this village and all deserve respect, not scorn. It certainly ceases to be funny when their actions reach the point to where Palmetto Bay faces another potential lawsuit, this time for violation of a resident's personal civil rights.
The article ends with the point that the council members should remember that democracy is filled with unpopular opinions. It is the job of government, large or small, to respect all opinions.
Read the article, link at top and feel free to express your thoughts. E-mail me at eugeneflinn@bellsouth.net if you do not want to publicly post. You can always remain anonymous.